Questions & answers

When and where are you getting married?

Saturday, February 6, 2027, at The Wintergarden, One Bausch & Lomb Place, Rochester, New York. The ceremony begins at ⟨a time to come⟩, with dinner and dancing to follow.

Is the ceremony indoors?

Yes. The ceremony and reception both take place inside the Wintergarden’s glass atrium. You’ll be among the trees with the city lights overhead, comfortably removed from the February cold.

How do I RSVP?

Once invitations go out ⟨this autumn⟩, you’ll be able to RSVP here on the website. For now, saving the date is all we ask.

Is there parking?

Yes. Complimentary valet is available at the entrance, so you can pull up, hand off the car, and step straight inside.

Where should I stay?

Hotel blocks, airport information, and winter travel notes are on the Travel & stay page. If you have extra time, our Rochester guide has a few of our favorite places in the city.

What is the dress code?

Cocktail attire, sometimes described as semi-formal. It will be February in Rochester, so bring a coat for arrival and departure. The ceremony and reception are both warm and indoors.

What time should I arrive?

Please arrive about twenty to thirty minutes before the ceremony, with time to valet, check your coat, and find your seat before the processional begins.

Will there be an open bar?

Yes. An open bar through the evening, a glass of wine with dinner, and champagne for the toast.

Are children welcome?

Our two children and Danielle’s niece are part of the wedding party. Beyond them, the celebration is adults-only, and we hope it feels like a night to yourselves.

Can I bring a plus-one?

Your invitation will name everyone included in your party. We would have loved to include everyone’s favorite people, but the Wintergarden can only hold so many, so we’ve kept the guest list to those closest to us. If something appears to be incorrect, please let us know. We may have simply missed it.

Have you registered for gifts?

We haven’t set up a registry. After nearly eight years in our home, we’re well settled, so rather than a gift for the house, we’d be grateful for a contribution toward our future together.